\u201cDuh,\u201d my nieces would say. This may sound too obvious and self-serving, but hear me out. So many grooms come to me prepared to sell their kidneys just to make sure their brides get the wedding gown of their dreams and tell me later that they just want to buy something off-the-rack for themselves. There is a misconception that since men only play a secondary role in the wedding, they can get away with wearing something generic. Weddings are just as much as your day as it is the bride\u2019s. You will both look back at your wedding day as the day you started becoming one. Wouldn\u2019t it be a good idea to wear something special for the occasion? Something that was made specifically for you, with sleeves that won\u2019t bunch up at the shoulders and pants that hang just right. A tailored suit will not just look nice for the pictures, but it will also be a good companion during one of the most important days of your life. The day you say \u201cI do\u201d should be one that\u2019s remembered for the loving moments, not for the number of times you had to tug at your cuffs or asked your best man to check if you had a wedgie.[\/cs_text][\/cs_column][\/cs_row][\/cs_section][cs_section parallax=”false” style=”margin: 0px;padding: 45px 0px;”][cs_row inner_container=”true” marginless_columns=”false” style=”margin: 0px auto;padding: 0px;”][cs_column fade=”false” fade_animation=”in” fade_animation_offset=”45px” fade_duration=”750″ type=”1\/1″ style=”padding: 0px;”][x_image type=”none” src=”http:\/\/weddingsatwork.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/BKS_DapperDiaries1.jpg” alt=”” link=”false” href=”#” title=”” target=”” info=”none” info_place=”top” info_trigger=”hover” info_content=””][\/cs_column][\/cs_row][\/cs_section][cs_section parallax=”false” style=”margin: 0px;padding: 45px 0px;”][cs_row inner_container=”true” marginless_columns=”false” style=”margin: 0px auto;padding: 0px;”][cs_column fade=”false” fade_animation=”in” fade_animation_offset=”45px” fade_duration=”750″ type=”1\/1″ style=”padding: 0px;”][cs_text]Be adventurous<\/strong><\/p>\n Raised eyebrows. Nervous laughter, head-shaking. Exclamations of \u201cAy di ko kaya yan<\/em>\u201d. These are but normal reactions I would get from traditional grooms whenever I tell them to embrace more modern cuts and styles. Groom\u2019s fashion has evolved from the traditional Americana and a variety of patterns and colors are now available for the groom. Do not be afraid to explore, it is okay to go beyond black, white, grays, and navies. And do not be afraid of the slim-fit pants. These will not make you chunky. With the right cut, slim-cut pants are actually very flattering.[\/cs_text][\/cs_column][\/cs_row][\/cs_section][cs_section parallax=”false” style=”margin: 0px;padding: 45px 0px;”][cs_row inner_container=”true” marginless_columns=”false” style=”margin: 0px auto;padding: 0px;”][cs_column fade=”false” fade_animation=”in” fade_animation_offset=”45px” fade_duration=”750″ type=”1\/1″ style=”padding: 0px;”][x_image type=”none” src=”http:\/\/weddingsatwork.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/BKS_DapperDiaries6.jpg” alt=”” link=”false” href=”#” title=”” target=”” info=”none” info_place=”top” info_trigger=”hover” info_content=””][\/cs_column][\/cs_row][\/cs_section][cs_section parallax=”false” style=”margin: 0px;padding: 45px 0px;”][cs_row inner_container=”true” marginless_columns=”false” style=”margin: 0px auto;padding: 0px;”][cs_column fade=”false” fade_animation=”in” fade_animation_offset=”45px” fade_duration=”750″ type=”1\/1″ style=”padding: 0px;”][cs_text]Never underestimate the Barong<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n There is a reason the Barong Tagalog<\/em> is still worn in formal occasions. It withstands the test of time as well as adapts to modern trends. The Barong is a great option for summer weddings, especially for countries as warm as ours. I\u2019ve had grooms tell me they want to wear barongs but do not want to look like a politician about to attend a hearing and for these instances, I would recommend the Barong suit. Classic, clean, traditional but with a very modern twist, it\u2019s like having the best of the both worlds.<\/p>\n Own your piece<\/strong><\/p>\n A special set of cuff links here, a boutonniere there, it is easy to stamp your identity on a suit. This advice is especially important for groomsmen who do not want to just end up looking like a clone. Just because you will be sharing the same design of suits as the others does not mean you have to disappear into the crowd. You can ask the groom if you can wear a different colored shirt or if each of the men in his entourage can wear different bow ties. There is always an opportunity to stand out.[\/cs_text][\/cs_column][\/cs_row][\/cs_section][cs_section parallax=”false” style=”margin: 0px;padding: 45px 0px;”][cs_row inner_container=”true” marginless_columns=”false” style=”margin: 0px auto;padding: 0px;”][cs_column fade=”false” fade_animation=”in” fade_animation_offset=”45px” fade_duration=”750″ type=”1\/1″ style=”padding: 0px;”][x_image type=”none” src=”http:\/\/weddingsatwork.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/BKS_DapperDiaries7.jpg” alt=”” link=”false” href=”#” title=”” target=”” info=”none” info_place=”top” info_trigger=”hover” info_content=””][\/cs_column][\/cs_row][\/cs_section][cs_section parallax=”false” style=”margin: 0px;padding: 45px 0px;”][cs_row inner_container=”true” marginless_columns=”false” style=”margin: 0px auto;padding: 0px;”][cs_column fade=”false” fade_animation=”in” fade_animation_offset=”45px” fade_duration=”750″ type=”1\/1″ style=”padding: 0px;”][x_image type=”none” src=”http:\/\/weddingsatwork.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/BKS_DapperDiaries5.jpg” alt=”” link=”false” href=”#” title=”” target=”” info=”none” info_place=”top” info_trigger=”hover” info_content=””][\/cs_column][\/cs_row][\/cs_section][cs_section parallax=”false” style=”margin: 0px;padding: 45px 0px;”][cs_row inner_container=”true” marginless_columns=”false” style=”margin: 0px auto;padding: 0px;”][cs_column fade=”false” fade_animation=”in” fade_animation_offset=”45px” fade_duration=”750″ type=”1\/1″ style=”padding: 0px;”][cs_text]Lastly but most importantly, know yourself<\/strong><\/p>\n As I keep telling my clients, suppliers like me only augment the ideas that you have and turn them into reality. We cannot impose our designs on you, but we are more than willing to help you discover what your signature style is so we can work together towards creating it. Fashion is all about expressing yourself, so go ahead and let the Harvey Specter in you dazzle the crowd. [cs_content][cs_section parallax=”false” style=”margin: 0px;padding: 45px 0px;”][cs_row inner_container=”true” marginless_columns=”false” style=”margin: 0px auto;padding: 0px;”][cs_column fade=”false” fade_animation=”in” fade_animation_offset=”45px” fade_duration=”750″ type=”1\/1″ class=”cs-ta-left” style=”padding: 0px;”][cs_text]My love for suits came before the inception of BKS Men\u2026 way before my exposure to fashion and wedding industries in general. 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\n[\/cs_text][\/cs_column][\/cs_row][\/cs_section][cs_section parallax=”false” style=”margin: 0px;padding: 45px 0px;”][cs_row inner_container=”true” marginless_columns=”false” style=”margin: 0px auto;padding: 0px;”][cs_column fade=”false” fade_animation=”in” fade_animation_offset=”45px” fade_duration=”750″ type=”1\/1″ style=”padding: 0px;”][x_image type=”none” src=”http:\/\/weddingsatwork.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/BKS_DapperDiaries2.jpg” alt=”” link=”false” href=”#” title=”” target=”” info=”none” info_place=”top” info_trigger=”hover” info_content=””][\/cs_column][\/cs_row][\/cs_section][cs_section parallax=”false” style=”margin: 0px;padding: 45px 0px;”][cs_row inner_container=”true” marginless_columns=”false” style=”margin: 0px auto;padding: 0px;”][cs_column fade=”false” fade_animation=”in” fade_animation_offset=”45px” fade_duration=”750″ type=”1\/1″ style=”padding: 0px;”][cs_text]All creations and photos by Boy Kastner-Santos.\u00a0Read more of Boy Kastner-Santos’ Bridal Fashion articles at www.weddingsatwork.com\/category\/waw-bridal-fashion\/<\/a>.<\/em>[\/cs_text][\/cs_column][\/cs_row][\/cs_section][cs_section parallax=”false” style=”margin: 0px;padding: 45px 0px;”][cs_row inner_container=”true” marginless_columns=”false” style=”margin: 0px auto;padding: 0px;”][cs_column fade=”false” fade_animation=”in” fade_animation_offset=”45px” fade_duration=”750″ type=”1\/1″ style=”padding: 0px;”][cs_block_grid type=”two-up”][cs_block_grid_item title=”Block Grid Item 1″]![\"boy-kastner-column\"](\"http:\/\/weddingsatwork.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/12575774_1223556767673027_2129320236_n.jpg\")
<\/a>[\/cs_block_grid_item][cs_block_grid_item title=”Block Grid Item 2″]About Boy Kastner Santos, (WaW Supplier of the Year 2011): <\/strong>More known as \u201cTito Boy\u201d in the industry, Boy Kastner Santos started designing in 1986 and quickly became in-demand for his personalized ways and designs, and meticulous eye for detail.[\/cs_block_grid_item][\/cs_block_grid][\/cs_column][\/cs_row][\/cs_section][\/cs_content]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"