37 Steps to Make an Election-themed Party!

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(image courtesy of Jayson & Jo Anne Arquiza)

1. Have an ex-politician for a dad who seriously thinks you could follow his footsteps.

2. Discuss this during a family vacation with your siblings and in-laws throwing in their support.

3. When talks get serious, have your wife and mom ask you not to trade a peaceful family life by running for public office.

4. Discuss the situation with your barkada who’ll eventually egg you to run just as well, but for all the wrong reasons.

5. Hear one of them actually suggest a catchy campaign slogan that you would eventually use for the occasion.

6. Have your wife make you promise you’re not running, before she proceeds with any plans for the party.

7. Tell family of your decision. Say something along these lines:

“Hindi ako tatakbo, pero wala na akong magagawa kapag ginusto na ng taongbayan.”

8. In lieu, tell them you’re planning a election-themed birthday party; also tell them about the campaign slogan which will be the central theme.

9. Introduce yourself to people. Have no qualms changing your ‘generic-sounding’ name in facebook with the nickname you’ve always hated as the slogan made good use of it.

10. Announce in your FB stat that the reason you’re changing your name is to make it masa-sounding which the voting public can easily relate to. Include the mandatory *rolleyes* remark at the end.

11. Send feelers to preferred suppliers whom you like to work on the party to already book the date.

12. Get wife pregnant and have her OB-Gyn tell her she’s on house arrest at the start of pregnancy (translation: CALL-OFF THE PARTY).

13. Announce to siblings and in-laws the change in plans but have them say — its worse and more tiring for preggy wife to host lunch or dinner at home, than to scheme a party with reliable suppliers around to help us put things together — afterwards.

14. Bring out the party blueprint yet again.

15. Tell suppliers that the party will push through with only 2 weeks to plan and execute.

16. Book a historic/political venue for the party to go with the election theme.

17. Decide for an after-dinner affair to lessen cost.

18. Choose local street food for the menu to go with the very Pinoy theme.

19. Schedule a studio pictorial for the campaign materials.

20. Grab this photo opportunity to have your picture taken with your favorite ride.

21. Ask friends in FB what would be a good campaign hand sign and actually get very good suggestions.

22. Shoot a video for the campaign ads by simply riding around the neighborhood.

23. Have your videographer ask you to do your mandatory hand sign.

24. Actually bungle up the simple task above; it makes a funny blooper video afterwards.

25. Dub your voiceover narration and try your darnest to sound serious and convincing.

26. Have the wife make an FB event page to invite your friends.

27. Be vague about the event by posting a video teaser that actually looks like a campaign ad.

28. Design a campaign materials with slogans and catchphrases.

29. Make them nice and personalized so your wife and bestfriend would want to use it as profile pic/campaign badge in their respective FB accounts.

30. Have your friends ask for the same campaign badges for themselves to be posted on their own FB walls or as profile pics.

31. Flood your friends’ FB Highlights with all these people posting the same campaign badges.

32. Have friends of friends ask who’s the guy they seem to be supporting.

33. Always reply with “Ordinaryong Pilipino lang po.” whenever you encounter such comments even if the person asking doesn’t know who the heck are you.

34. Have your wife surprise you with a blog entry for your birthday with yet another video teaser and various links to other people’s blogs posting the same clip.

35. Have real politicians hold an important press conference in your chosen venue. Something that would hog the headlines the following day. The renewed hype on the venue would somehow lend credence to your mock campaign.

36. Have personalized button pins ready for all your guests as campaign t-shirts are just too expensive.

37. For added suspense and unpredictability, ask your dad to deliver a speech in the party.

Those are the ingredients for a fun and meaningful birthday party. Here’s proof:

ACKNOWLEDGMENT

Of course, my heartfelt gratitude to all the wonderful suppliers who assisted us in mounting this event:

Events by Clarice for handling the event | 4th Wall for the venue setup and props  | Threelogy for the campaign ads and coverage | MetroPhoto for the studio pictorial on such short notice |  Josiah’s Catering and Toddler’s Inc. for providing some of the foodcarts | Flaming Olives for the mobile bar | Joy San Gabriel for the cake and personalized topper that resembled me on my scooter doing the ‘Angkas na!’ sign | PhotoLoco for the (photo)booth wisely souvenirs | John Mateos Ong and his ImagineNation team for the covering the event and providing the projector | Sensitivity for providing the needed audio reinforcement

Special mention to a couple of N@Wies/FB friends who gave us some vital campaign ideas: Joanne Figueroa-Yap for suggested the hitchhiker’s thumb for my hand sign which tied in very well with the ‘Angkas na!’ campaign battlecry; and Mylene Ramos-Lado for posting that *rolleyes* smiley on my wall which eventually landed on the ‘official’ seal as displayed in the picture above.

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Best of all, thanks to my pregnant wife for spearheading this ‘campaign’.   I think she’d make a very fine First Lady. Don’t you guys agree? 😉

Muling nagpapasalamat,
~ Abet Rana
(the blogger formerly known as John)

Orgasmic fun at Bim & Gen’s Pre-Marital Party!

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(photo by Paul Vincent. Click here for more photos.)

Benz & I have attended pre-wedding parties separately in the past. Thing is, the bachelor parties I’ve been to had a non-disclosure agreement upon entry, while Benz attended bridal showers that are too wholesome to be interesting. 😛

Last night was probably the first time we’ve attended a not-so-wholesome pre-wedding party together. It’s not like a tame shower not a quite an off-the-record stag either.  The event was just pure unadulterated bastusan!

From what I gather, a pre-marital party is to ready the soon-to-weds prepare for the wedding night. All the attendees are one in saying ‘NO’ to pre-marital sex. *rolleyes*

To Bim & Gen, the couple who runs phoeben teocson | wedding cinema, our congratulations and best wishes for your November 21 wedding… night! 😉

Props to Queen Gutierrez-David of Just Like Ours, the soon-to-weds’ wedding planner for orchestrating the whole thing and keeping it a secret from the couple.  Now I’m assuming that a pre-marital party will now be part of her freebie for her other clients. bwahaha!

FREE “W@W Wedding Primer” (2009 Edition) at the WedCon today & tomorrow!

primer09-small.jpgThe Wedding Congress in SM Megamall’s Megatrade Hall opened yesterday (Fri | Jul. 24) and it will run until tomorrow (Sun | Jul. 26).  In time with this annual event is the release of the 7th edition (2009) of “The W@W Wedding Primer.”  Soon-to-weds may get their FREE copy at the registration booth by the entrance.

Read more about about the latest edition.

Marathon Bridal Boudoir Pictorial Session (FREE!)

If I didn’t know my brother any better, I’d say he’s tripping into playing Santa in August by finding who’s “naughty” or “nice.” 🙄

But Fol Rana, Jr. is a passionate photographer & a true gentleman at work. Enough said. *nakana! Ayos ba yon, kuya?* :mrgreen:

Bridal Boudoir, in layman’s term, is a sensual pictorial of the bride. Yeah, kinda like a massage without oil and sans body contact. It’s not for everybody though.

Any why would a bride want to do this? Fol cited these usual reasons said to him:

  • I want to give a great gift for my groom on our wedding night
  • I am tired with just the usual prenup and engagement shoot
  • A perfect first anniversary gift to my husband
  • A totally different way of seeing myself
  • I want to reward myself
  • I want a little adventure
  • I want to feel pampered, beautiful and sexy
  • I have been waiting for this
  • I want my grandkids to see that I was hot

Oh, did we tell you already this Marathon Boudoir Shoot is FREE? But do note there are limited slots so the sooner you gather your guts, the better. 😉

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Check out the poster or click this link for details.

My High School Reunion: wedding suppliers to the rescue!

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(me holding what we use to call “isang set” back in HS: gulaman’t sago + bananacue)

Yeah, I know there was not a single blog entry last week.  That’s because this blogger was in the thick of things preparing for his MCUHS89 batch reunion.  It’s been twenty years since I graduated from high school.

Since I’ve invited some of the high school pals to attend the W@W VideoFest, an idea (or two) struck them.  They enjoyed the Paparazzi Wall and Photo Booth during that January 30 event, that they asked me if our batch fund could afford such for our own reunion.  W@W gets these stuff in its own events for free out of love and goodwill.  Clearly, that shouldn’t extend for my personal gain, right?

Boy, I was so proven wrong.   In last Saturday event, a photobooth came in courtesy of Jayson & Jo Anne Arquiza‘s Smiles Photo Booth.   A Paparazzi Wall, designed for us by W@Wie Jenki, was printed and installed for us by 4th Wall.  And what is a paparazzi wall without photographers, right?  Nice Print sent two hardworking & very courteous photographers from its pool to cover the whole thing. A heart-shaped, prom-inspired, balloon arch was made for us by Weddding Wonders & Party Surprises.  Even the stage in our HS Quadrangle was spruced-up also with the help of expert stage & lighting design by 4th Wall.  They also took care of the printing of our souvenir mugs & button pins.  The works talaga!

And the best part is, we didn’t have to beg to get all these.  The moment our friends knew I needed help for this event, they willingly offered without asking for anything. Nakakahiya man, sobra pa rin akong nagpapasalamat sa pag-alalay.  The community spirit in W@W, and in the wedding industry in general, is alive and well.

My reunion last Saturday night was an event I’m truly proud. Our HS principal was so impressed how our Quadrangle looked like that even our University’s VP  for Administrative Affairs dropped by to see how things are going. 🙂

Of course, special credit goes to Benz who worked with me in these at the background. Thanks, Mimma!

To the above mentioned suppliers, thank you very much.  Makabawi din sana ako sa inyo. 🙂

vacation galore, links & more!

After W@W’s 10th anniversary celebration, Benz & I claimed that much-deserved break and maximize the time we spend with our daughter Kite while its summer vacation. Although we are not on full vacation-mode since we still go online and check mails when there’s wi-fi access wherever we are. 🙂

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(more Bora images @ Metrophoto)

After our family-bonding in Boracay, we will go on a North Luzon Loop roadtrip a bit later.  But before hitting the road, allow us to take a quick break from our break.

Here we share the links of dear friends in the industry who blogged about “Ten-ten-te-ten”.

We’re pretty sure we missed other collegues who blogged about the event.  We’ll add more links as soon as we find them.

In the meantime, enjoy the rest of the summer everyone! 🙂

Act N@W!

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(photo by Mot Rasay)

Newlyweds@Work (N@W) is a spin-off eGroup of W@W.  Last December 20, the N@Wies shared their blessings and the joyous Christmas spirit with some less-fortunate children.  We are hoping that the endeavor was just the beginning of a regular slew of activities aimed at extending a helping hand to those in need.

It was a fun event and looking at the pictures, it’s truly heartwarming to see the kids happy. See their happy faces here:

It’s important to note that the N@Wies did this project without prodding from either me or Benz. Each N@Wie contacted people for his/her personal network and pulled together their resources to make this undertaking a success.

To all the people and entities who donated in cash or in kind, MARAMING, MARAMING SALAMAT PO! 🙂

Some Christmas party pics!

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Just some of the pictures taken during last Friday’s party.  We’ll update the links as soon as other images are uploaded.

Happy viewing! 🙂

On your mark, get set, AUCTION!

Starting last Thursday, the W@Wies have been busy bidding for the 2008 W@W Christmas Auction. The items up for bidding are products and/or services donated by various wedding suppliers to help us raise funds for mounting the upcoming W@W Christmas Party (happens this Friday!) and our 10th Anniversary Celebration in March 2009.  Our annual auction is open exclusively for W@Wies who are given the chance to get the donated items at a fraction of its actual market value.

Among the big items up for grabs for this year is Jason Magbanua‘s wedding coverage pegged at P75,000.  Cecilio Abad donated two bridal gown packages worth P65,000 each.  Robert Blancaflor threw in a floral and event styling package also valued at P65,000.  Threelogy and JSDV both pledged their video coverage worth P55,000.  Another wedding gown package worth P50,000 is up for grabs donated by Niko for Veluz.

There are actually more than a hundred items that are now being auctioned as we blog. Check out this list to see the complete list of the generous wedding suppliers who supported us for this endeavor.

MARAMING SALAMAT PO!

Get your new Bride’s Yellow Pages this weekend!

byp2008-09.jpgThe 2008-2009 edition of the Bride’s Yellow Pages (BYP) is now ready.  Copies of our latest edition will be given out for FREE to all soon-to-weds (while supplies last, of course!) visiting the Weddings… Get Set.. Go!!! bridal fair this coming weekend (Oct. 11 & 12) at the Rockwell Tent beside the Power Plant mall.

The new BYPs will the handed-out by the registration table outside the venue.  In case you haven’t yet, simply pre-register to this event.  Hope you’ll like it! 🙂

Metro Weddings EIC chats with the W@Wies!

romina-urra-gonzalez.jpgThis coming March 26 (Wednesday), Metro Weddings‘ editor-in-chief, Romina Urra-Gonzalez, goes online to chat with the W@Wies from 10AM to 1PM. The schedule fits even brides-to-be in their offices who can readily sneak-in and join the fun during their lunch break. 😉

We’ve done this in 2005 with the magazine’s former editor, Daphne Oseña, in the hotseat as she gamely answered questions about how she planned her own wedding and gave practical wedding tips to those who asked. This year’s chat session is sure to be as fun as before.

The chat will held be via YM conference so be sure to add us (Yahoo ID: benz_co_rana) in your list of contacts and send a message come Wednesday so we can invite you to join the discussions.

See you then! 🙂

Hawaii Four-O!

One Memorable Poolside Luau for a Ruby Wedding Celebration
by: John & Benz Rana
article originally appeared in print: 06.04.05

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We just came back from the best wedding party we’ve ever been to! The event was the Renewal of Vows and Thanksgiving Party of our parents, Fulgencio Rana, Sr. & Perla Capiral-Rana, to celebrate their 40th (ruby) wedding anniversary. We had the perfect weather, the perfect set of wedding suppliers who seamlessly set the mood, guests who came in their Hawaiian outfits ready to party, and most of all, a very happy couple finally getting the kind of wedding they never had.

Papa & Mommy (that’s not a typo, that’s really how we call them!) never had an en grande wedding when they got married 40 years ago. Yet they managed to pay (in full or in part) for the weddings of their five children. So since their 25th anniversary and every five years hence, the family would toy with the idea of having a renewal of vows. On New Year’s Day of 2005, the plans became more concrete, and the ideas and talks became more serious. Aha, this is it! This is the year. finally!

Our Dream Team

Being a wedding photographer, our kuya, Fol Rana, Jr. was automatically put in charge of the photo coverage and portraiture; and us, being in the forefront of WeddingsAtWork.com, were automatically put in the driver’s seat to plan the whole event. Lucky for us, preparing with just six months lead time wasn’t as hard since we already knew who to go to for what. In just a matter of days, we have already decided who will be doing what and by the outcome of yesterday’s event, we surely made all the right choices.

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First, we decided on having the event at The Coconut Palace as this is the venue the guests will most appreciate; outdoor yet elegant, picturesque, and would fit our Luau-theme perfectly. Next we got Josiah’s Catering as Papa, Mommy and their friends love their food already and the company has already been the family’s choice primarily because of their very personalize service with us in every event. What made the look cohesive was the design of the non-traditional invitations we got from Prinsonalities.The invites set the tone of the celebration which made all the guests indeed come in their best luau get-up. Virginia Cakes based their design on the invites and what a sight the towering cake was! But that was expected, as Virginia always provided the cakes for all our major events and never failed to wow us. To set the mood with their set & lighting design, we talked to Balay Kandila and as soon we did, there came a snowball of ideas that felt like an avalanche already! Plans became bigger and bigger, set-ups became more and more elaborate until we were already too excited and too hooked up with the wedding. Their enthusiasm and heart poured into this wedding was so infectious that what started as a simple party became a Grand event. While in the hotel, Mom was already so impressed with their hand-painted Unity Candle custom-made by Balay. The set-up and styling of the venue was very colorful in the afternoon sun and transformed magically as dusk came. Sound Syndrome automatically came in as our lights and sounds provider and as the plans grew bigger that the venue would no longer be able to provide the electrical requirement, that we would need a generator. Good thing Glisaz just informed us that have gensets for rent. Next came Tropical Blooms to complete the Luau look, they provided every floral bouquet for the entourage, complete with the painstakingly hand-made leis made of leaves draped on the men’s shoulders with the ends dangling in front; it set apart the male entourage from the guests.

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The fireworks were one thing we insisted on. We felt the celebration won’t be as grand without the illuminating the sky & the Manila Bay backdrop. Good thing our friends from Dragon Fireworks are accredited with Coco Palace. The ooh’s and ahh’s the fireworks generated was proof it indeed wouldn’t have been perfect without it.

The only thing that took us the longest finalizing was the production for the Audio Visual Presentation. As we had to go on location for this, Papa, kuya and us had our own opinion on what we want the AVP to be. Threelogy Digital Video was actually in a bind as we were all pulling them on different directions. Good thing they found a way and were able to make a video that surely pleased us all. We are very proud of this group as they are friends who just recently entered the wedding industry and are steadily gaining ground. We look forward to seeing them make it big.

As we were in the middle of the preparations and actually quite done choosing most of the suppliers, we’ve noticed that our personal to-do list for the big day become more and more complicated for us to handle that we already needed professional event management. Good thing Visions & Ideas came on board just in time and practically saved our lives and sanity. We would definitely be too tired writing this article if they weren’t there during the event. No task was too big or too bothersome for them. Everytime we reach a stump, they would simply say, don’t worry, we will handle it, and really they did! There was nothing we needed that they didn’t have (yes, including Midol!) that it was just like JLo in her movie! Mommy even said she felt like a queen with a personal assistant always on her side to simply wash her hands. Thanks to them we were able to actually enjoy the event without worrying about anything.

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It is now hours after the party but still we can picture the whole set-up: tables linens in printed floral design, waiters and waitresses in complete Luau get-ups, long neon flags in bamboo poles waving, the super colorful projector frame that was such a center of attraction, the full orchestra elevated on platform that resembled a boat with matching lifesavers, the bamboo raft that transported the Rana grandkids from one end of the pool to the other, the special numbers prepared by our brothers, sisters and our kids, the first burst of the fireworks, the smiles as the AVPs were shown, the grand fondant cake, the calla lily bridal bouquet, the yummy chocolate fountain, the unending servings of food, and the endless congratulations of we got from both guests and wedding suppliers for such a great wedding and finally seeing the happiness of our dear parents who finally got their wedding and so much more!

Rain-Free Day

Our special thanks to the Carmelite sisters of Lipa and the cloistered nuns of Santa Clara who helped us in praying for a rain-free day. Call it a miracle but it really didn’t rain that day despite the consistent afternoon showers throughout the week. Mommy said, if prayers can move mountains, what more if it’s just rain. It also helped that Papa, who from the start never doubted that it would be a sunny day, was unwavering even during the eve of the wedding despite the really loud downpour and wind we heard from the balcony of the bridal suite in Westin. The blessings were just too great we knew that God has a hand in making it all happen.

Papa & Mommy, we are so happy we had a hand in making all this possible for you. Here’s wishing you 40 more years of good health and togetherness. We love you! Cheers!

W@W Desktop Gallery


2004
Weddings in Photographs

2005 – volume one
Butterfly Kisses

2005 – volume two
Hitched

2006
Altar Bound

2007 – volume one
I WILL. – a promise of forever

2007 – volume two
I DID! – the beginning of ever-after

2008
XOXO – hugs & kisses

2009 – volume one
Happy : ) Happy

2009 – volume two
Happy :’) Tears

2010
Ten-Ten-Te-Ten
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2011
Destination Weddings: PHILIPPINES
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2012
Green

2013
Save the Date
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2014
Lovin’ Limang Taon

About this Publication:

The W@W Desktop Gallery is our annual desk calendar which features the works of twelve (12) noted Filipino wedding photographers. It is release every end of November in time for distribution in the annual W@W Christmas Party and W@Wie Awards.

The photograph in the collection of this annual gallery is unified by a given theme. Pertinent contact information of each participating photographer is included within the month and page his/her work is featured.

A limited copies of this W@W desk calendar is available at W@W Sari Sari Store

at P100. (US $2.00) each.

If you are a wedding photographer and wish to be included in the next year’s calendar, please contact: 0917.850.1026 (Benz) or email: mail@WeddingsAtWork.com

Bride’s Yellow Pages (BYP)

The Philippines’ Most Updated & Comprehensive Wedding Directory ISSN 1656-8931
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About this Title:

If WeddingsAtWork.com (W@W) made the wedding industry accessible through the web, the Bride’s Yellow Pages (BYP) made it easier by compiling everything into one handy bag-sized directory that any bride (or groom) could bring everywhere.

W@W takes pride by not just listing the who’s who but also the up-and-coming in the local bridal industry. Products and services are listed down per category from Church & ceremony venues down to honeymoon destinations. Know the contact information for those wedding must-haves and the nice-to-have, from wedding essentials to the littlest bridal niceties.

Coming out with a new edition anually is credited to all our valued advertisers. We sincerely appreciate their support which serves as the lifeblood of this undertaking. Without them, this coming up with a yearly update wouldn’t be possible at all.

The latest edition of BYP is available at The Wedding Library (SM North Edsa & Megamall branches) at P100 a copy.

For ad placements, circulation & book orders, please contact:0917.850.1026 (Benz) or email: mail@WeddingsAtWork.com

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BYP: meet deadline or deadmeat?!!

The 2005-2006 edition of the Bride’s Yellow Pages (BYP) is finally having its run on the press. The past couple of weeks have been a hell with missing files on our computer that caused us to be two weeks behind our original sched.

With barely a month to go, we are still eyeing for it’s launch and FREE distribution at the Wedding Expo in NBC Tent this Sept. 3 & 4.

Will we make it? We’re holding our breath. 😉